Is Lapse Safe? A Lapse App Review for Parents

Harmful Content 😲

Even if based on old-school photography, the app still has new-school dangers. The feature that’ll raise the most alarm among parents will be the Instants. On Lapse, there are actually two different ways to share photos. The first way is the snaps, which we explained above. The second way is to take an Instant that develops as soon as you take it and it can only be sent directly to a friend. Once your friend views it, it deletes immediately. If you just thought of Snapchat, so did we. 

Disappearing messages give kids the false idea that they can send whatever they want with no repercussions. But we’re all too familiar with the fact that nothing ever truly disappears from the internet. So if your child uses Lapse, we suggest keeping an eye on this particular feature as best you can. If the app has any risk of cyberbullying, sexting, or other inappropriate content, it’ll likely happen with Instants. 

The other potentially concerning piece is the Featured feed that we described above. As far as our team could see, there’s no inappropriate content on this feed. This is likely because it’s being reviewed by a team. But it’s certainly not impossible for something to slip through the cracks and this is something that could change in the future. Parents will appreciate that there’s no commenting ability on the Featured posts, which helps eliminate tons of potentially inappropriate content.

Predation 🚨

Unfortunately, Lapse is not foolproof when it comes to keeping strangers off your profile. Lapse will suggest mutual friends to add based on your current friends list and your contact list (if you give the app access). Additionally, you could add people you don’t know from the Featured tab, or vice versa — if you get one of your photos featured, then a stranger could add you. 

And here’s the real kicker — Lapse has a private messaging feature. Anytime an app has this feature, the risk for predation skyrockets. But Lapse still gets some credit because you can only direct message people you’ve specifically added as friends. So you won’t get a completely random person in your DMs without deciding to add them first. 

Privacy 🔒

Lapse actually has some decent privacy settings in place. For one, all profiles are set to private and there’s no option to make it public. Not only does this keep strangers off your child’s profile, but this also prevents your child from changing that setting like they can on other social media apps. 

Kids can actually have a fairly private experience on Lapse if they only add people they know. It’s always good practice to keep any personally identifiable information out of their bio, especially if they get a post featured where any other Lapse user could see it. 

Parental Controls ✅

Lapse does not have any parental controls to speak of. We suggest testing this app out yourself first to get the lay of the land. Then, if you let your child use it, be sure to have frequent conversations with them about responsible internet use and safety. 

And if you want some peace of mind when it comes to Lapse, Bark can help with that! With Bark, you can:

• Block Lapse entirely, if needed
• Manage when your child can use Lapse throughout the day. 

So, should my kid download it?

Due to the disappearing messages and access to a public feed, we’d say Lapse is a safe app for ages 15 and up. But if you’re worried about your kid’s ability to post risky content or send inappropriate messages, it may be best to stay away.