Cyberbullying is a rising concern, and it’s one that typically has no real legal repercussions – especially among minors. The best way to prevent the consequences of cyberbullying, like depression and sometimes even suicide, is to understand how and why kids do it. Here are some of the ways in which teens use Instagram to cyberbully others and what you can do to take control and keep your children safe.
#1 – Create Fake Accounts to Impersonate Their Targets
#2 – Cruel Comments
Teens are at an age where their self-image is still under development. Keep in mind that the frontal lobe (the impulse control and decision-making part of the brain) is not fully developed until their early 20s. They’re trying to discover who they are and who they want to be as adults, but don’t always know how to best express this. Cyberbullies often go to great lengths to harm their targets’ self-esteem, including leaving cruel and demeaning comments on selfies and other photos. Sometimes, these comments are lies designed to make people look bad in front of their peers, thereby harming their reputations.
#3 – Captioning Other Photos
There have been reports of cyberbullies uploading explicit or even pornographic photos and messages and tagging their unsuspecting targets in them. This can not only be embarrassing, but leave lasting scars. The bully will sometimes attempt to lead others to believe the photo is of the target. They caption someone else’s photo with a negative or hurtful sentiment to imply it is the target. This subversive form of cyerbullying may not even name their target, but is done in such a way that anyone who knows the target knows it’s about them.
#4 – Being Malicious
Cyberbullies often pose as friends to their targets to gather information they can use to bully them later. For example, cyberbullies may befriend their targets and use the opportunity to take incriminating photos at parties or create embarrassing photos with Photoshop or other photo editing software. The cyberbully then uploads the picture to mortify their targets. The cyberbully is looking for engagement from either bystanders or the target and are bolstered by the attention for creating drama. They often go after kids they know and perceive as being weak or having low-self esteem.
How to Stop Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is heartbreaking and can leave a negative impact on the targets. Unfortunately, social media gives kids plenty of options for anonymous bullying. Be your child’s support system. Let them know cyberbullying is unacceptable and not their fault. Figure out a response together to empower your child to deal with the cyberbullying and bolster their self esteem. The best response is to disengage with the bully, take a screenshot of the message, and be sure to report all instances of cyberbullying to the social media platform. If the cyberbullying continues, report it to the authorities as harassment. If your child is the one doing the bullying, they may need some counseling to pinpoint the reasons why they feel the desire to make others feel bad about themselves.
Cyberbullying is a problem, and it’s one that continues to grow. More and more kids report being cyberbullied every single day. It’s up to us, as engaged parents, to talk to our kids about cyberbullying and help keep them safe. Use Bark monitoring to keep your kids safe. Bark monitors online interactions for you, if our algorithms detect these instances of cyberbullying, we send you an alert.